Today, I want to talk to you about shame around money. Mine and maybe yours.
This has everything and anything to do with you, your business and the amount of money you’re making.
In the coaching world, we often call these types of feelings in entrepreneurs and business women: HIDDEN BLOCKS.
I have so much I want to teach you about this, but let me start with a couple stories.
Part of you wants to make a ton of money. You want to be successful. You’re ready! “Bring it on world!” you think. “I’m ready to be rich!”
But another part of you is saying, “Who do you think you are?” You feel unworthy. You don’t think it’s possible for you. I mean, maybe things like that "don’t happen to people like you."
Can you relate?
Or maybe you heard things like “money is the root of all evil” or “rich people are bad and greedy” as a child and you embedded them deep into your belief system.
Since you don’t wish to be a bad person, a secret part of you perhaps doesn’t want to actually earn a lot of money…
Part of you wants to sell out your offers, products or services. You’re ready to get to work and change the world. “I am ready for clients! Where are they?” you think. “How can I get people to buy all of my products?” you wonder. You are SO READY to sell what you have to offer.
But another part of you is saying, “What if they don’t like it?” And so you secretly don’t want it or you even sabotage your efforts. What if they troll me on the internet or say that my products suck? Then everyone will see it. I’ll be so embarrassed. I don’t know how I would take it. I’d be ruined!
Can you relate?
HERE’S ANOTHER LAYER OF COMPLEXITY:
You might not even know you are doing it.
Remember, your mind as you know it and the thoughts you’re aware of sit in your “conscious” brain..
That’s only like 5-10% of your thoughts and beliefs.
The other 90-95% sits in your SUBCONSCIOUS. That means, you don’t even know you are thinking them!
That’s a whopping 90-95% of your thoughts working to directly oppose what you think you truly want.
This is why I am always emphasizing that we, as entrepreneurs or even just women who desire more from our lives, address our mindsets.
Because no amount of knowledge, education, strategies, tools and “the answers” will help you if you don’t “get your mind right.”
So what can you do about it?
Thank you for asking because it’s my favorite topic! I could talk for months about it and not run out of things to teach.
Of course, neither one of us has that kind of time to write & read my posts, but I want to give you something you can start using today.
1. You must start getting aware of your thoughts.
What kind of thoughts do you tell yourself? Are they negative or positive?
Don’t get it twisted: IT MATTERS. Your reality and your world is almost entirely driven by the thoughts you think and the things you tell yourself. So getting aware is the first step.
2. What do you do each day to cultivate your own wealth consciousness?
Developing and shaping my wealth consciousness, beliefs about money and internal sense of worthiness was THE #1 GAME CHANGER when it came to earning money.
If you don’t do this, you’ll have a really really really hard time achieving your fullest potential when it comes to wealth & income.
3. You will eventually come to a fork in the road and have to make a choice:
Are you willing to dive deep into your past, your beliefs system, your family’s energy & beliefs around money and let them go?
If so, you’ll have to do the work to “UNBLOCK” these conflicts within you and create a whole new set of beliefs.
This is where the magic happens!!! Your life (and finances) will never be the same if you are open to doing this kind of work.
If any of this speaks to you, please let me know! I’d love to introduce some new trainings within the Facebook Group and potentially some online trainings to help support you in becoming a true wealth creator.
If you are interested in that, please let me know! I won’t put them together unless it’s something you want so if you give me a “YES!” I’ll gladly do it.
In the meantime, please know that you have so much more power over your success, circumstances and results that you know….even when it comes to money.
P.S. On a side note, I don’t have any live trainings for you this week. For the lovely women in our Facebook Group, I am so sad not to be able to hop on and chat with you this week! Last week’s surgery has been a little more tricky in terms of recovery, but I’ll be back on next week. Thank you for your patience!
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